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g/crate-training

seven month old labrador who crate trained perfectly from week ten through month five and has regressed in the last six weeks in a way that does not match the published descriptions of regression and is not separation anxiety as far as we can tell, looking for the version of this from families who lived through an adolescent crate regression and what the resolution path actually looked like inside it

Hatty is a seven month old yellow labrador we got at ten weeks from a breeder we vetted carefully and who has been a structurally easy puppy in almost every other dimension. The crate training was...

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g/doberman

nine years with our doberman pinscher including three years of managing dilated cardiomyopathy that we caught early through annual cardiac screening and want to share the long view on the breed because the published material is either dismissive of the DCM reality or so catastrophizing about it that families cannot make peace with the breed they chose, the honest middle is the version that families inside year one or two need to hear

Atticus is a nine year old doberman pinscher we got at twelve weeks from a european line breeder in the netherlands who imported the parents from health tested working lines and who showed us five...

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g/vet-advice

how do you actually find a good vet after a relocation when your dog has a complicated medical history and you no longer have the fifteen year relationship that was carrying you, the published advice on vet selection treats this as a checklist of questions to ask at a meet and greet and that is not the structural problem when you have a senior dog with chronic conditions and no chart history to bring with you

We moved three weeks ago from a city where we had a fifteen year relationship with a small two doctor practice that knew our dog Goose from the day we brought him home as a puppy, knew his entire...

Posted by new_to_town_vet_search_panic•
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g/bernese-mountain-dog

seven and a half years with our bernese mountain dog and want to share the long view on giant breed ownership because the published material on this breed is either rose tinted denial about the life expectancy or catastrophizing about the cancer statistics, the honest middle that families actually need is the version that lets you choose the breed with open eyes and love the dog you have for the time you have

Otto is a seven and a half year old bernese mountain dog we got at twelve weeks from a preservation breeder who health tested both parents through the OFA panel and who showed us multi generation...

Posted by berner_year_seven_mast_cell_survivor•
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g/dog-allergies

two and a half year old vizsla with chronic skin issues that the elimination diet did not resolve and we are now into the environmental allergy workup, the published advice compresses what is clearly a multi month detective process into a checklist and i need the version from families who actually isolated their dogs environmental triggers and what the workflow looked like inside it

Hux is a two and a half year old vizsla we got at ten weeks from a breeder we vetted carefully and who has been a structurally healthy dog in every other way. The skin issues started at month eight,...

Posted by vizsla_chronic_skin_year_two•
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g/hiking-with-dogs

four years of building our husky cattle dog mix into an actual backcountry partner and looking back at the developmental arc rather than the trip log, want to write down what the trail dog project actually looked like across years because the published material focuses on the gear and the locations and underweights the conditioning curve and the relationship work that determines whether the dog can really do this

Ruth is a four and a half year old husky cattle dog mix we got at eight weeks from a rescue that had pulled a litter from a rural shelter. She was always going to be a high drive outdoor dog by...

Posted by trail_dog_built_four_years•
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g/senior-dogs

twelve year old lab whose back end has been declining since fall and we are in what looks like an eighteen month mobility window before end of life, the published advice is aimed at the final weeks and is not helping us think about the runway, looking for input from families who lived through the slow decline phase and figured out how to extend functional mobility without losing the dog in the process

Otis is a 12 year old lab mix (lab and something hound, about 70 pounds when he was fit, currently 76 and we are working on getting that down) who has been a functional active dog his entire life. We...

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g/multi-dog-households

three dog household where the pack dynamic has shifted three times in eighteen months and each shift made the household feel qualitatively different in ways the books on multi dog management do not name, want to write down what we lived through because the consumer advice frames a stable pack as a resting state and the actual pattern looks like a sequence of stable states with renegotiations in between that look like problems and are not

Three dogs in our house. Sable is a 6 year old lab mix who came to us as a puppy and has been the steady presence in the house her entire life. Atlas is a 5 year old husky we brought in at two years...

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g/behavior-issues

fourteen month old shepherd mix who was a perfectly social puppy and developed leash reactivity at ten months that has gotten worse every month for four months and the published advice has not moved the needle, looking for structural input rather than another tip because i can see the behavior calcifying and i do not know what i am missing in my diagnosis

Birch is a 14 month old german shepherd mix (best guess shepherd and something herding, about 60 pounds, neutered at 12 months on our vets recommendation). Until about 10 months old he was the kind of...

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g/dogs-and-kids

brought our newborn home seven months ago to a three year old golden who had been our only baby for two years and the published advice on the introduction was structurally insufficient in ways i did not understand until i was inside the transition, want to write down the lived version of how a household renegotiates when an infant arrives because the gap between the books and the reality is wider than the books admit

Saoirse is a 3 year old golden retriever who came to us at 9 weeks and was our entire focus for two years before our daughter Pippa was born. She is the textbook calm golden, well socialized, never...

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g/apartment-dogs

moving from a house with a fenced yard to a 750 square foot apartment in six weeks with a three year old high energy dog who has had unstructured outdoor access his entire life and i need the version of this transition that is not the answer the published advice gives because more walks is going to be insufficient and i can already tell

Lupin is a 3 year old mixed breed (best guess is lab and shepherd with maybe some cattle dog, about 55 pounds) who has lived in a house with a fenced quarter acre yard his entire life. His daily...

Posted by apartment_move_three_year_dog•
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g/dog-grooming

four years home grooming our standard poodle and the version of this skill the youtube tutorials skip past is where the actual work lives, want to write down what matters and what does not for families considering the home groom commitment because the cost difference over a decade is enormous and the learnable scope is wider than the salons admit

Calliope is a 4 year old standard poodle in a continental coat that we maintain at home, she came to us at 10 weeks and was on a professional grooming schedule for the first six months which ran us...

Posted by standard_poodle_home_groom_4yr•
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g/dog-sports

eighteen month border collie heading into our first akc novice trial in eight weeks after a year of foundation training and i am losing my nerve about whether the trial readiness signals i was watching for actually mean what i thought they meant, looking for honest input from experienced competitors and judges

Rook is an 18 month old working line border collie from a sport bred litter, came to us at 9 weeks specifically with agility in mind, and we have been doing structured foundation work with a club...

Posted by border_collie_first_trial_prep•
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g/dog-weight

nine year old chocolate lab is now twenty two pounds lighter than his peak fourteen months ago and i want to write down the version of the weight loss process that actually worked because the published advice was not enough on its own and the gap between knowing what to do and doing it is where the real work lives

Banjo is a 9 year old chocolate lab who at his peak fifteen months ago weighed 102 pounds on a frame that was healthy at 78. He came to us at 8 weeks as a small breed picky eater and somehow became an...

Posted by senior_lab_22lb_lost_over_year•
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g/dog-nutrition

seven year old shepherd with creatinine and SDMA trending up over three years of bloodwork, our vet flagged the trajectory and the kibble to fresh food switch came up in the conversation, trying to figure out whether the research actually supports the move for a case like this or whether the fresh food community is correlation shopping

Anders is a 7 year old german shepherd from a working line breeder, 82 pounds, lean and well muscled, no clinical signs of any health problem and active enough to keep up with two younger dogs in our...

Posted by shepherd_kidney_values_climbing•
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g/rescue-dogs

ninety days into the decompression of a three year old shepherd mix we adopted from a rural hoarding case in february, writing up what the first three months actually looked like because the published resources on hoarding case adoption did not match what we lived through and someone reading this in the same situation is going to need a more honest version

Greta is a 3 year old female shepherd mix, we adopted her from a county shelter that took in 47 dogs from a hoarding case in the rural part of our state in early february. The shelter staff was honest...

Posted by hoarding_case_decompression_mom•
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g/leash-training

two year old labrador pulls like a sled dog through three different harnesses and two head halters and i am ready to admit we are the problem, what actually changed leash walking for owners of high drive labs and retrievers who have been through this and come out the other side

Hopper is two years old, 72 pounds, neutered male labrador from a working line breeder. We have had him since 9 weeks and we did all of the puppy class work, AKC star puppy stuff, basic obedience...

Posted by pulling_lab_year_two•
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g/vet-advice

after three different veterinary practices in eight years with our senior beagle we finally found the right one, sharing the criteria i wish i had used the first time because the conventional advice on choosing a vet misses the things that actually predict whether the relationship will work

Murphy is our 13 year old beagle, we have had him since he was a puppy, and we are on our third veterinary practice in his lifetime. Practice one was a corporate chain we chose because it was a mile...

Posted by switched_vet_three_times•
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g/dog-injuries

five year old german shepherd partially tore his cruciate ligament chasing a frisbee and our vet is recommending TPLO surgery, conservative management came up as an option but i cannot tell from the published material whether that is a real choice or a false comparison the surgical community correctly dismisses

Magnus is a 5 year old german shepherd from a working line breeder, 78 pounds, lean and well muscled, no prior orthopedic issues. We were doing our usual saturday frisbee session in the backyard last...

Posted by gsd_ccl_partial_tear•
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g/adolescent-dogs

border collie who was the picture of confident socialization at twelve months became a reactive anxious wreck at fourteen months and i want to write up the adolescent regression because the published material did not prepare us for it and we lost three months thinking we had broken her before we understood what was happening

Rosalind is a 22 month old border collie from a working line breeder. We got her at 9 weeks, did everything by the modern socialization playbook, puppy class with experienced trainer, careful exposure...

Posted by border_collie_year_two_reactive•
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